on the other side of racism. 

About a week ago, my mother and I took my 7 year old daughter to New York City on a trip organized by her school. I went to New York in 2014 and visited the city for a few hours one day, and ever since then, she’s been saying that seeing it for herself –…

don’t sow the rot, grow the peace. 

Always do your best. What you plant now, you will harvest later. | Og Mandino  You reap what you sow. And about a week ago or so, I was seriously considering sowing some rotten seeds just to be spiteful for rotten seeds being planted in a garden close to mine. But I’m thankful for…

PS- | a follow up note to ‘living in a bubble…’

Yesterday had been a day, y’all. And not necessarily for good reasons. I was brutally reminded what happens when you join someone else’s fight, and defend yourself, what you believe in, and those who may not be able to defend themselves.  Last night I went to bed consumed by hate. Not that I hated anyone, but…

RIP: formerlyknownblog.wordpress.com

The above URL is the blog I created in the wake of my affair and “fall from grace” as some would call it. I didn’t feel safe writing here where everyone I know knows I write, knows what my blog site is (follow my blog, in some cases), and has so many opinions about what…

goodness gracious. 

When I left my husband a few months ago, I lost a lot.An entire church community, friends, family, everything: gone. I gained a lot, though (but I’ll get to that in a second). I gave my life to Christ in 2011 but in the last 2-3 years, I’ve been getting hurt a lot by God’s…